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The 3 Legacies
Recovery
● Unity
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Service
Legacy 1 - Recovery
THE TWELVE STEPS OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS
Step 1 - We admitted we were
powerless over our addiction - that our lives had become unmanageable
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-1.html
Step 2 - Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could
restore us to sanity
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-2.html
Step 3 - Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care
of God as we understood God
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-3.html
Step 4 - Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-4.html
Step 5 - Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the
exact nature of our wrongs
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-5.html
Step 6 - Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of
character
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-6.html
Step 7 - Humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-7.html
Step 8 - Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to
make amends to them all
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-8.html
Step 9 - Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except
when to do so would injure them or others
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-9.html
Step 10 - Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong
promptly admitted it
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-10.html
Step 11 - Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious
contact with God as we understood God, praying only for knowledge of
God's will for us and the power to carry that out
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-11.html
Step 12 - Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps,
we tried to carry this message to other addicts, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs
http://www.12step.org/the-12-steps/step-12.html
Legacy 2 - Unity
THE TWELVE
TRADITIONS OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS
These questions were
originally published in the AA Grapevine, in conjunction with a series
on the Twelve Traditions that began in November 1969, and ran through
September 1971. While they were originally intended primarily for
individual use, many AA groups have since used them as a basis for wider
discussion.
Tradition One: Our common welfare
should come first; personal recovery depends upon AA unity.
1. Am I in my group a
healing, mending, integrating person, or am I divisive. What about
gossip and taking other members’ inventories?
2.Am I a peacemaker? Or do I, with pious preludes such as “just for
the sake of discussion,” plunge into argument?
3. Am I gentle with those who rub me the wrong way, or am I abrasive?
4. Do I make competitive AA remarks, such as comparing one group with
another or contrasting AA in one place with AA in another?
5. Do I put down some AA activities as if I were superior for not
participating in this or that aspect of AA?
6. Am I informed about AA as a whole? Do I support, in every way I
can, AA as a whole, or just the parts I understand and approve of?
7. Am I as considerate of AA members as I want them to be of me?
8. Do I spout platitudes about love while indulging in and secretly
justifying behavior that bristles with hostility?
9. Do I go to enough AA meetings or read enough AA literature to
really keep in touch?
10.Do I share with AA all of me, the bad and the good, accepting as
well as giving the help of fellowship?
Tradition Two:
For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—a loving God
as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but
trusted servants; they do not govern.
1. Do I criticize or do I trust
and support my group officers, AA committees, and office workers?
Newcomers? Old-timers?
2. Am I absolutely trustworthy, even in secret, with AA Twelfth Step
jobs or other AA responsibility?
3.Do I look for credit in my AA jobs? Praise for my AA ideas?
4.Do I have to save face in group discussion, or can I yield in good
spirit to the group conscience and work cheerfully along with it?
5.Although I have been sober a few years, am I still willing to serve
my turn at AA chores?
6.In group discussions, do I sound off about matters on which I have no
experience and little knowledge?
Tradition Three:
The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking.
1.In my mind, do I prejudge
some new AA members as losers?
2.Is there some kind of alcoholic whom I privately do not want in my
AA group?
3.Do I set myself up as a judge of whether a newcomer is sincere or
phony?
4.Do I let language, religion (or lack of it), race, education, age,
or other such things interfere with my carrying the message?
5.Am I over impressed by a celebrity? By a doctor, a clergyman, an
ex-convict? Or can I just treat this new member simply and naturally
as one more sick human, like the rest of us?
6. When someone turns up at AA needing information or help (even if he
can’t ask for it aloud), does it really matter to me what he does for
a living? Where he lives? What his domestic arrangements are?
Whether he had been to AA before? What his other problems are?
Tradition Four:
Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups
or AA as a whole.
1.Do I insist that there are
only a few right ways of doing things in AA?
2.Does my group always consider the welfare of the rest of AA? Of
nearby groups? Of Loners in Alaska? Of Internationalists miles from
port? Of a group in Rome or El Salvador?
3.Do I put down other members’ behavior when it is different from
mine, or do I learn from it?
4.Do I always bear in mind that, to those outsiders who know I am in
AA, I may to some extent represent our entire beloved Fellowship?
5.Am I willing to help a newcomer go to any lengths his lengths, not
mine—to stay sober?
6.Do I share my knowledge of AA tools with other members who may not
have heard of them?
Tradition Five:
Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry its message to the
alcoholic who still suffers.
1.Do I ever cop out by saying,
“I’m not a group, so this or that Tradition doesn’t apply to me”?
2.Am I willing to explain firmly to a newcomer the limitations of AA
help, even if he gets mad at me for not giving him a loan?
3.Have I today imposed on any AA member for a special favor or
consideration simply because I am a fellow alcoholic?
4.Am I willing to twelfth-step the next newcomer without regard to who
or what is in it for me?
5.Do I help my group in every way I can to fulfill our primary
purpose?
6.Do I remember that AA old-timers, too, can be alcoholics who still
suffer? Do I try both to help them and to learn from them?
Tradition Six:
An AA group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the AA name to any
related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
1.Should my fellow group
members and I go out and raise money to endow several AA beds in our
local hospital?
2.Is it good for a group to lease a small building?
3.Are all the officers and members of our local club for AAs familiar
with “Guidelines on Clubs” (which is available free from GSO)?
4.Should the secretary of our group serve on the mayor’s advisory
committee on alcoholism?
5.Some alcoholics will stay around AA only if we have a TV and card
room. If this is what is required to carry the message to them, should
we have these facilities?
Tradition Seven:
Every AA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside
contributions.
1.Honestly now, do I do all I
can to help AA (my group, my central office, my GSO) remain
self-supporting? Could I put a little more into the basket on behalf
of the new guy who can’t afford it yet? How generous was I when
tanked in a barroom?
2.Should the Grapevine sell advertising space to book publishers
companies, so it could make a big profit and become a bigger magazine,
in full color, at a cheaper price per copy?
3. If GSO runs short of funds some year, wouldn’t it be okay to let
the government subsidize AA groups in hospitals and prisons?
4.Is it more important to get a big AA collection from a few people,
or a smaller collection in which more members participate?
5.Is a group treasurer’s report unimportant AA business? How does the
treasurer feel about it?
6.How important in my recovery is the feeling of self respect, rather
than the feeling of being always under obligation for charity
received?
Tradition Eight:
Alcoholics Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional, but our
service centers may employ special workers.
1.Is my own behavior accurately
described by the Traditions? If not, what needs changing?
2.When I chafe about any particular Tradition, do I realize how it
affects others?
3.Do I sometimes try to get some reward—even if not money—for my
personal AA efforts?
4.Do I try to sound in AA like an expert on alcoholism? On recovery?
On medicine? On sociology? On AA itself? On psychology? On spiritual
matters? Or, heaven help me, even on humility?
5.Do I make an effort to understand what AA employees do? What workers
in other alcoholism agencies do? Can I distinguish clearly among them?
6.In my own AA life, have I any experiences which illustrate the
wisdom of this Tradition?
7.Have I paid enough attention to the book Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions? To the pamphlet AA Tradition How It Developed?
Tradition Nine:
AA, as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards
or committees directly responsible to those they serve.
1.Do I still try to boss things
in AA?
2.Do I resist formal aspects of AA because I fear them as
authoritative?
3.Am I mature enough to understand and use all elements of the AA
program, even if no one makes me do so, with a sense of personal
responsibility?
4.Do I exercise patience and humility in any AA job I take?
5.Am I aware of all those to whom I am responsible in any AA job?
6.Why doesn’t every AA group need a constitution and bylaws?
7.Have I learned to step out of an AA job gracefully, and profit
thereby, when the time comes?
8.What has rotation to do with anonymity? With humility?
Tradition Ten:
Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name
ought never be drawn into public controversy.
1.Do I ever give the impression
that there really is an “AA opinion” on Antabuse? Tranquilizers?
Doctors? Psychiatrists? Churches? Hospitals? Jails? Alcohol? The
federal or state government? Legalizing marijuana? Vitamins? Al-Anon?
Alateen?
2.Can I honestly share my own personal experience concerning any of
those without giving the impression I am stating the “AA opinion”?
3.What in AA history gave rise to our Tenth Tradition?
4.Have I had a similar experience in my own AA life?
5.What would AA be without this Tradition? Where would I be?
6.Do I breach this or any of its supporting Traditions in subtle,
perhaps unconscious, ways?
7.How can I manifest the spirit of this Tradition in my personal life
outside AA? Inside AA?
Tradition Eleven:
Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than
promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of
press, radio, and films.
1.Do I sometimes promote AA so
fanatically that I make it seem unattractive?
2.Am I always careful to keep the confidences reposed in me as an AA
member?
3.Am I careful about throwing AA names around—even within the
Fellowship?
4.Am I ashamed of being a recovered, or recovering, alcoholic?
5.What would AA be like if we were not guided by the ideas in
Tradition Eleven? Where would I be?
6.Is my AA sobriety attractive enough that a sick drunk would want
such a quality for himself?
Tradition Twelve:
Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever
reminding us to place principles before personalities.
1.Why is it good idea for me to
place the common welfare of all AA members before individual welfare?
What would happen to me if AA as a whole disappeared?
2.When I do not trust AA’s current servants, who do I wish had the
authority to straighten them out?
3.In my opinions of and remarks about other AAs, am I implying
membership requirements other than a desire to stay sober?
4.Do I ever try to get a certain AA group to conform to my standards,
not its own?
5.Have I a personal responsibility in helping an AA group fulfill its
primary purpose? What is my part?
6.Does my personal behavior reflect the Sixth Tradition or belie it?
7.Do I do all I can do to support AA financially? When is the last
time I anonymously gave away a Grapevine subscription?
8.Do I complain about certain AAs’ behavior—especially if they are
paid to work for AA? Who made me so smart?
9.Do I fulfill all AA responsibilities in such a way as to please
privately even my own conscience? Really?
10.Do my utterances always reflect the Tenth Tradition, or do I give
AA critics real ammunition?
11.Should I keep my AA membership a secret, or reveal it in private
conversation when that may help another alcoholic (and therefore me)?
Is my brand of AA so attractive that other drunks want it?
12.What is the real importance of me among more than a million AAs?
Reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services,
Inc.
Legacy 3 - Service
THE TWELVE CONCEPTS OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS
A.A.’s Twelve Steps are principles for personal recovery. The Twelve
Traditions ensure the unity of the Fellowship. Written by co-founder
Bill W. in 1962, the Twelve Concepts for World Service provide a
group of related principles to help ensure that various elements of
A.A.’s service structure remain responsive and responsible to those they
serve.
The “short form” of the Concepts, which follows, was prepared
by the 1974 General Service Conference.
1.Final responsibility and ultimate authority for
A.A. world services should always reside in the collective conscience of
our whole fellowship.
2.The General Service Conference of A.A. has become, for nearly every
practical purpose, the active voice and the effective conscience of our
whole Society in its world affairs.
3.To insure effective leadership, we should endow each element of
A.A.—the Conference, the General Service Board and its service
corporations, staffs, committees, and executives—with a traditional
“Right of Decision.”
4.At all responsible levels, we ought to maintain a traditional “Right
of Participation,” allowing a voting representation in reasonable
proportion to the responsibility that each must discharge.
5.Throughout our structure, a traditional “Right of Appeal” ought to
prevail, so that minority opinion will be heard and personal grievances
receive careful consideration.
6.The Conference recognizes that the chief initiative and active
responsibility in most world service matters should be exercised by
trustee members of the Conference acting as the General Service Board.
7.The Charter and Bylaws of the General Service Board are legal
instruments, empowering the trustees to manage and conduct world service
affairs. The Conference Charter is not a legal document; it relies upon
tradition and the A.A. purse for final effectiveness.
8.The trustees are the principal planners and administrators of overall
policy and finance. They have custodial oversight of the separately
incorporated and constantly active services, exercising this through
their ability to elect all the directors of these entities.
9.Good service leadership at all levels is indispensable for our future
functioning and safety. Primary world service leadership, once exercised
by the founders, must necessarily be assumed by the trustees.
10.Every service responsibility should be matched by an equal service
authority, with the scope of such authority well defined.
11.The trustees should always have the best possible committees,
corporate service directors, executives, staffs, and consultants.
Composition, qualifications, induction procedures, and rights and duties
will always be matters of serious concern.
12.The Conference shall observe the spirit of A.A. tradition, taking
care that it never becomes the seat of perilous wealth or power; that
sufficient operating funds and reserve be its prudent financial
principle; that it place none of its members in a position of
unqualified authority over others; that it reach all important
decisions by discussion, vote, and, whenever possible, by substantial
unanimity; that its actions never be personally punitive nor an
incitement to public controversy; that it never perform acts of
government, and that, like the Society it serves, it will always remain
democratic in thought and action.
Reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services,
Inc.
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