How It Works!
RARELY HAVE we seen a person fail who has
thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who
cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program,
usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest
with themselves. There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault;
they seem to have been born that way. They are naturally incapable of
grasping and developing a manner of living which demands rigorous
honesty. Their chances are less than average.
There are those, too, who suffer from grave
emotional and mental disorders, but many of them do recover if they have
the capacity to be honest. Our stories disclose in a general way what we
used to be like, what happened, and what we are like now. If you have
decided that you want what we have and are willing to go to any length
to get it - then you are ready to take certain steps. At some of these
we balked. We thought that we could find an easier, softer way. But we
could not. With all earnestness at our command, we beg of you to be
fearless and thorough from the very start. Some of us have tried to hold
on to our old ideas and the result was nil until we let go absolutely.
Remember that we deal with alcohol - cunning, baffling, powerful!
Without help it is too much for us. But there
is One who has all power - that One is God. May you find him now. Half
measures availed us nothing. We stood at the turning point. We asked His
protection and care with complete abandon. Here are the steps we took,
which are suggested as a program of recovery:
1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that
our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than
ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives
over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of
ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another
human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these
defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and
became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever
possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we
were wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve
our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for
knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of
these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to
practice these principles in all our affairs.
Many of us exclaimed, "What an order! I can't
go through with it." Do not be discouraged. No one among us has been
able to maintain anything like perfect adherence to these principles. We
are not saints. The point is, that we were willing to grow along
spiritual lines. The principles we have set down are guides to progress.
We claim spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection.
Our description of the alcoholic, the chapter
of the agnostic, and our personal adventures before and after make clear
three pertinent ideas: (a) That we were alcoholic and could not manage
our own lives. (b) That probably no human power could have relieved our
alcoholism. (c) That God could and would if He were sought. How it works
- Chapter 5, page 58-60 of the Book, Alcoholics Anonymous
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